Applied, denied… cried

I was nominated for a bursary...but I didn't get it.

We've all had multiple examples of the "thanks, but no thanks, sorry" email.

But that's not what's shared on social, is it?

Nope - instead, we're inundated with...

Look at my promotion, anniversary, holiday, cute baby, the list goes on.

Never forget that behind the smattering of smug is FAR MORE CRAP that doesn't get shouted about.

Failed applications, break-ups, crying kids, fertility challenges, and the mundanity of everyday life ETC ETC.

Remember - putting yourself in a position to be rejected is an achievement in itself.

As there are many who live life so afraid of falling short they play small.

I admire "applied, denied, cried" over "shoulda, coulda, woulda" every time.